20 Thoughtful Wedding Gift Ideas for Same-Sex Couples

These thoughtful, handmade and custom-designed gifts are guaranteed to make the newlyweds smile.

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April 20, 2022
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First things first: When shopping for a wedding present for a couple, always start by looking at their wedding registry for gift ideas. These are the items you know they want and need since they picked them out themselves. However, if the items on the registry are already claimed, a sweet, personalized gift is a thoughtful alternative.

While the market is flooded with custom Mr. and Mrs. items, finding a bride and bride or groom and groom gift, or even a card, can be tough in big box stores. Luckily, there are lots of online shops offering custom-made gifts for gay and lesbian couples. We've rounded up some of our favorites, from matching pillowcases to first Christmas ornaments.

From $40
Etsy (US)

Kitchen accessories are a classic and appreciated gift. Outfit the newlyweds' kitchen with this practical cutting board with a special reminder of their big day. Available in two sizes, the board is crafted from luxe cherry wood for a gift that is as useful as it is decorative.

$29.99 (Set of 2)
Etsy (US)

There are Mr. and Mrs. sets for just about anything in big box stores, but it can be hard to find sets for same-sex couples. We stumbled across these sturdy campfire mugs on Etsy, and we're obsessed. It's the perfect gift for an outdoorsy couple or a couple who just loves fall firepits.

$35 (Set of 2)
Etsy (US)

We also love these matching wifey mugs with a calligraphy-inspired font from Etsy maker McCartyCreations. They're made of high-quality ceramic and are microwave and dishwasher safe — perfect for gift giving.

$178 (Set of 2)
Pottery Barn

For the couple who loves to stay in, treat them to a matching set of soft, Turkish cotton robes. The spa-like wraps are lightweight, yet totally luxurious. If you're feeling extra generous, pair the luxe set with a gift certificate for a couple's massage to enjoy after the wedding stress is over.

$59.95 (Set of 12)
Williams-Sonoma

Weddings are a cause for celebration, and celebrations mean cake — cake pops, that is. Treat the happy pair to a delicious set of groom and groom cake pops made by NY Cake Pops. Truffle-style vanilla cake is rolled into spheres and dipped in decadent chocolate then hand-decorated with iced tuxedos and bow ties.

From $29.95
Etsy (US)

Add an extra-special touch to their newlywed home with a hand-painted wood sign customized with the couple's names. The repurposed-pine sign joins the two names with a delicate heart and can serve as a sweet decor piece for the mantel, gallery wall or anywhere they see fit.

$30 $23.2
Homesick

Homesick has lots of great candles for milestones and celebrations, from Mother's Day to birthdays. And the Let's Toast candle is perfect to send a couple to celebrate their nuptials, boasting notes of delicious mandarin, grapefruit, apple, pineapple and champagne grapes.

$34 (Set of 2)
Etsy (US)

Give the new couple a fun set of matching pillowcases to celebrate their union. Send to their honeymoon hotel ahead of time for a surprise when they walk into the room. We love this playful set from online maker WystarWeddingShop.

From $27.05 (Set of 2)
Etsy (US)

And these wifey pillowcases from Etsy shop CreativePillowLV are so cute, too. Choose from multiple sizes in either percale or sateen cotton fabrics. They make great bridal shower gifts or engagement party presents.

$22
Etsy (US)

Help the happy couple personalize their shared home with a thoughtful watercolor-like print illustrating the pair and their pets (if they have any). Choose from a wide selection of options to personalize the print including skin tone, hair color and style, wardrobe and dog breed.

From $30.95 (Set of 2)
Etsy (US)

These handmade leather wrap bracelets from online maker RiskyBeads are a great pre-wedding or shower gift. Choose from a plethora of colors in both leather and faux suede cords, as well as aluminum, bronze or copper bars for the set.

From $33
Etsy (US)

Gift the couple a personalized ornament to celebrate their first Christmas, or a holiday they celebrate, together as a married couple. It's something they'll enjoy unwrapping year after year. This one-of-a-kind ornament can be customized with a silhouette of the happy couple plus their names on the front and their engagement or wedding date on the back.

$20
Etsy (US)

A timeless keepsake, this Mr. and Mr. ornament will be a special reminder each holiday season of their first Christmas together. Two tuxedos pair with the couple's names and wedding year on a hand-stained birch round, serving as a thoughtful and custom gift idea.

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airbnb

Any travel-loving couple would appreciate a credit for an Airbnb rental of their choice. They can put it towards lodging on their honeymoon now or save it for a romantic weekend getaway in the future. Simply purchase a gift card for any amount between $25 and $500, and you'll be giving them something truly invaluable.

$30
Amazon

These personalized forks are perfect for a reception sweetheart table or the iconic first cake bite photo. And unlike other wedding decor and rentals, they make a great keepsake.

$5
Etsy (US)

Finding a wedding card for two brides can be difficult in stores. Opt for a hand-designed and printed design from DIYers and makers online, like this one from Towne9. Add in a gift card or money for a last-minute gift idea.

$6.99
Amazon

We love this two grooms card on Amazon. Pair the card with a gift card to the couple's favorite restaurant or go-to store. It's perfect for any wedding event, from the engagement announcement to the big day.

$41.99
Etsy (US)

For the couple that loves to entertain, gift them a custom serving platter to utilize when hosting. This high-quality, durable resin platter boasts a charming design and is personalized with the pair's names and wedding year. When not in use, the platter can serve double duty as a decorative piece in the kitchen or dining area.

$181.95
Williams-Sonoma

Stock the lovely couple's pantry with a six-month subscription of cooking essentials from Williams Sonoma. Each month they'll receive one premium pantry essential delivered to their front door including award-winning extra-virgin olive oil, sea salt flakes, a library of Williams Sonoma's most popular spice rubs, restaurant-quality pasta and more.

$19.50 $15.6
Etsy (US)

These "missing piece" bracelets from online maker JaneRJewelry are a great shower or bachelor/bachelorette party gift. The natural aquamarine beads and black agate beads remind the couple that their better half is always with them.

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