Make a Great First Impression With These Perfect Gifts for Meeting the Family
We all know the dos and don'ts of meeting a significant other's parents for the first time: don't argue about politics, don't talk with food in your mouth and, of course, do bring a gift. Especially during the holidays, a sincere, thoughtful gift tells his parents that you're invested in your relationship with their child and that you care about building one with his family. But if you're still struggling to find the perfect present, don't stress! We've compiled a list of great gifts to buy or DIY just in time for the big day.
THE BEST DIY GIFTS:
Volunteer to bring a delicious homemade dessert to the holiday gathering. They'll be super impressed by your thoughtfulness and, of course, your mad baking skills.
Make This: Cranberry Orange Linzer Cookies
For a gorgeous gift that won't require a lot of maintenance, choose easy-to-care-for plants and materials like orchids, river stones and birch bark. Arrange inside a glass terrarium for a chic look.
Make This: How to Create a Terrarium
DIY Rustic Bread Board
You don't need to spend a lot of money to give a beautiful, vintage-style gift. This rustic bread board is easy to make with just a few everyday tools and materials. Include a fresh loaf of delicious homemade walnut bread and you'll definitely be invited back next year.
Make This: DIY Rustic Bread Board
These DIY flavored liquors are great conversation starters and make much more unique gifts than the standard bottle of wine or whiskey. Tip: Check that the family has no religious or moral objections before gifting liquor. You definitely don't want to offend!
Make This: DIY Flavored Liquors
THE BEST ALL-IN-ONE GIFTS:
Vintage Hostess Gifts
Go on the hunt for a sweet vintage piece you can fill with inexpensive treasures for the host or hostess. A silver-plate champagne bucket can usually be found for around $20 at most antique stores or yard sales and is the perfect vessel for unique glassware, whiskey stones and, of course, champagne! No need to wrap, just tie with a bow and seasonal greenery for a pretty presentation.
For Coffee Lovers
If you know his parents adore coffee, impress them with a beautifully-packaged woven basket filled with their favorite gourmet brew, mugs, biscotti and a french press.
For Cheese Lovers
Skip the store-bought baskets and hand-select a delicious blend of artisanal cheeses, chutney, almonds, gourmet crackers, a slate cheese board and spreading knives. And don't forget to include a menu!
THE BEST STORE-BOUGHT GIFTS:
You Can't Go Wrong With Fresh Flowers
A medium-sized bouquet of fresh, seasonal flowers is always a welcome gift. For an extra-special touch, handpick a one-of-a-kind vase that can be used again long after the flowers are gone.
As a rule of thumb, choose a candle that's beautifully packaged and costs a little more than your run-of-the-mill glass jar variety. Include a box of designer matches and wrap in cellophane or with a pretty bow for a polished, thoughtful presentation. Tip: Do your research. Ask your significant other what types of scents his family prefers. Florals? Vanillas? Also, soy candles are a great choice as they are non-toxic, burn longer and produce a stronger aroma.
Our Product Pick: Snowflora Balsam & Cedar Soy Candle, Anthropologie, $18
Break the ice and get to know the family with the gift of a fun, all-inclusive, after-dinner game. A word of caution: a little friendly competition is fine but try not to trash talk Aunt Martha when the stakes get high.
Our Product Pick: The Game of Things, Walmart, $28
Warm and Cozy Throw
Who doesn't love curling up with a warm blanket on cold winter nights? Wrap this cozy gift in a pretty box with a few jars of rich hazelnut hot cocoa.
Our Product Pick: Faux Fur Throw, Overstock.com, $18
Coffee Table Book
Pick a book with an enticing cover that also pertains to the recipient's interests. Tip: Thumb through before gifting to make sure there isn't any unsavory content.
Our Product Pick: Humans of New York, Amazon, $17