The Modern Guide to Holiday Etiquette

The holidays are upon us, which means it’s time to brush up on your etiquette and rules for best behavior during this season of events and gatherings. There’s nothing more fulfilling than knowing you presented yourself well as a host or guest. Fortunately, we’re sharing advice on everything from attending the office party to hosting your own holiday shindig to giving memorable gifts. Read on for 20 practical tips you can use for this holiday season!

A timely holiday invitation should always be sent at least a month prior to the event. If the event is more formal, plan on sending out invitations up to two months in advance. The invitation should include specific details about the celebration, such as the date, time and location as well as the dress code, if any. If your party is an adults-only occasion, avoid using the phrase, “no kids,” and opt for a friendlier approach that lists the names of the guests you intend to invite. Most importantly, include an RSVP date for recipients to respond. This will give you a headcount prior to the party to create a menu that serves everyone attending. If you are a guest, make it a priority to RSVP as soon as you know you can or cannot attend. Avoid missing the RSVP date by setting a reminder on your calendar.

With a bit of planning, you can be festive and professional at your company holiday party. If you want to wear something bold, like an animal print, tone it down with a nice blazer and fashionable clutch. A little black or red dress that is knee length with heels is always classic, as is a pantsuit for ladies that want to exude power and confidence. Other options for ladies include tailored pants or skirt with either a festive top or a simple solid top with a scarf, or a shift dress with a semi-fitted leather jacket for a sleek look. Balance is the key.

For men, it’s a great time to show off that wool coat and chambray shirt. Trousers and well-maintained boots pair well and can provide a nice balance between casual and dressed up. For a more formal event, stick with a tweed blazer and modern sweater vest. Both can be worn with dark jean or well-pressed slacks, depending on the dress code for the evening. For a little personality, sport a tie or even better, bowtie.

Unless the invitation specifically states a theme, leave the ugly Christmas sweater in the closet along with the mistletoe hats and reindeer antlers. A dinner party during the holidays should be treated as a special event, even if it considered a casual party, so dress to impress. For a more formal affair, a festive cocktail dress with fashionable heels is always a good choice. For a more casual gathering, a good go-to involves wearing denim pants with a colorful top. Add a jacket to increase the level of sophistication of your outfit. Nice boots and booties are popular right now and will keep you looking stylish and your feet warm. For men, boots or oxfords are a safe bet to looking your best, no matter the formality of the dinner.