Solution: Family meetings are a great way to establish a housekeeping routine. Sherrie LeMasurier, professional organizer and co-owner of Keeping Kids Organized, suggests you add tasks one at a time. Start a new system for the grocery list one week and allocate time every week for family clean-up the next.
The meetings can double as problem solving time. Ask kids why they're not cleaning up after themselves and brainstorm solutions. Do they always leave their clothes out? Solving the problem might be as easy as buying more hangers or a larger dresser. Whatever chores you choose, be consistent. "Make cleaning a priority for everyone, even if it's only for five minutes a day," says professional organizer Betsy Peterson. A star chart is an effective incentive for kids to do their work daily, especially if there is a prize (like a fun family activity) when the chart is full.
For uncooperative spouses, professional organizer Cyndi Seidler, owner of Handy Girl Organizers, says the best solution is a heart-to-heart discussion. "Don't ask them to help maintain order for the sake of order," she advises, "ask them to help you."
Trying to do all the work yourself is maddening. Enlisting your family members makes cleaning more fun and kids learn valuable life lessons.