Expert Holiday Strategies for Less Stress, More Fun

Money is usually the biggest stressor during the holidays–we rarely have enough of it, right? But if you’re determined to skimp on the extras, take care to cut costs with cool class.

So you can’t quite afford to host the big, holiday shindig you want? Carlin says it’s quite acceptable to have a buffet-style, open house. "Open houses are much less stressful for both hosts and guests," she says. "And you won’t have to sweat it if a friend brings a few extra people show up (though, that in itself is not polite)." Keep it simple with finger foods and appetizers. Better yet, make it a dessert party, she suggests. "Have people over for holiday pastries and coffee," Carlin says. "The treats can come from your local bakery, but do hide the boxes!"

The gift-giving department can be a bit trickier. What if your friends want to swap presents with you, but they weren’t exactly in your budget? Think creative. Think one gift to share with many. Think homemade goodies. "A nice box of homemade cookies is very thoughtful," Carlin says. "Make a big batch, divide them up, and put them in small, decorative bags. That way, you can take care of several friends at the same time."

In the event that you’ve got plenty of cash to spend, don’t go overboard with buying expensive gifts, especially in an office environment. "When everyone else is exchanging candy and books and candles, your presenting someone with an iPod will not make you look generous -- it'll make you look silly."

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